No, she consented to sex with the guy not her friend. It's like saying your boyfriend calling you up for a bootie call but then his mate turns up at the door and expects you to go through with it coz you said yes on the phone.
I've heard of this thing...it has a name...I can't remember...where frat guys take a girl home and want to fuck her doggie style, then when she turns around, another guy takes his place and does the deed while the original guy runs around to the outside of the building to wave at her from the window. It's rape...giving consent to one person isn't a licence for just anybody to fuck them.
I do wonder if it started out like that, her lovesick friend wanting to get closer to her, and it just got out of hand.
I do wonder if it being a female perpetrator clouds the issue. If it were a guy instead, I don't think it would feel like such a grey area xx
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Date: 2015-09-10 08:15 am (UTC)I've heard of this thing...it has a name...I can't remember...where frat guys take a girl home and want to fuck her doggie style, then when she turns around, another guy takes his place and does the deed while the original guy runs around to the outside of the building to wave at her from the window. It's rape...giving consent to one person isn't a licence for just anybody to fuck them.
I do wonder if it started out like that, her lovesick friend wanting to get closer to her, and it just got out of hand.
I do wonder if it being a female perpetrator clouds the issue. If it were a guy instead, I don't think it would feel like such a grey area xx